Backbiting or the "took pui jek" from the Islam perspective:
Backbiting is one of the meanest manners and most serious crimes and sins. God likens the backbiter to the one who eats the flesh of the dead. I say, it's worse that eating the flesh of the dead. It's eating me alive! In the corporate world, backbiters survive by backbiting others. What I hated most about these backbiters is that they tend to catch the best moment when you're not around and tells the whole world about your incompetence.
Why can't you tell it in front of me like a man?!!! Why can't you complain about me when I'm around? Why wait until I'm away? Obviously, you backbiters have an agenda behind your back. And I need not know why. No wonder my back was aching today.
But before you go around and complain, do give it a thought as to wouldn't you in the first place come and approach me if you have a problem. Do you really have to wait until I'm not around to be telling me that I'm not up to mark? If you have to, then I'm glad you did. At least I know that you guys weren't so virtuous after all.
And I thought : "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should say [something] good, or he should keep silent." [Bukhari, Muslim, Ahmad, Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah] Well I guess people do forget. Therefore, I strongly believe that if I have done nothing wrong, I have nothing to fear. And I don't give a damn. Sorry if my attitude towards backbiters are a little harsh but I think they sincerely deserved it!
Backbiting is one of the meanest manners and most serious crimes and sins. God likens the backbiter to the one who eats the flesh of the dead. I say, it's worse that eating the flesh of the dead. It's eating me alive! In the corporate world, backbiters survive by backbiting others. What I hated most about these backbiters is that they tend to catch the best moment when you're not around and tells the whole world about your incompetence.
Why can't you tell it in front of me like a man?!!! Why can't you complain about me when I'm around? Why wait until I'm away? Obviously, you backbiters have an agenda behind your back. And I need not know why. No wonder my back was aching today.
But before you go around and complain, do give it a thought as to wouldn't you in the first place come and approach me if you have a problem. Do you really have to wait until I'm not around to be telling me that I'm not up to mark? If you have to, then I'm glad you did. At least I know that you guys weren't so virtuous after all.
And I thought : "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should say [something] good, or he should keep silent." [Bukhari, Muslim, Ahmad, Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah] Well I guess people do forget. Therefore, I strongly believe that if I have done nothing wrong, I have nothing to fear. And I don't give a damn. Sorry if my attitude towards backbiters are a little harsh but I think they sincerely deserved it!
Remember this my friend...
"The backbiter will not be forgiven by Allah until his [backbited] companion forgives him."
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